Just Write It!
Persevere Through Writer’s Block
Recently, I’ve been thinking a lot
about blocks. Not the LEGO blocks, city blocks, television news blocks,
concrete blocks, etc. Those “blocks” never affected me much until it came to
writing. This particular block was puzzling. The frustration over how to
move forward with my latest writing endeavor had me tied in knots. The lack of
sleep it induced was maddening. No wonder blocks obsessed me!
Writer’s Block is the definition given
to this temporary psychological state, and it is nothing to sneeze at. It’s
defined as a slowdown of the creative thought, sometimes immediate, a lack of motivation,
or feeling stuck in the writing process.
I had it. I’d rather have had the flu
instead—just kidding.
All
jokes aside, this experience was not my first; I thank my lucky stars that
there haven’t been more. I consider it just another part of the writing
process. A curse of the creative that tests the will to persevere.
As
writers, there will come a time when we might have difficulty choosing a path forward
with a storyline, a narrative, or a character’s development and voice. For
instance, how do we seamlessly combine two narratives to make a compelling
story? It takes skill, of course. A supportive writing community, such as
critique partners, writing groups, or editors, helps. However, without these
writing avenues, how does one become unstuck?
Or
keep writing?
How
do we persevere when the writing process fails us? Good question. Of course,
there are many resources to help with Writer’s Block. A quick Google search
will provide a plethora of ‘how to’s, ’ which is nice. But the why of it
is something to ponder.
Sometimes,
a writer never knows where the story will lead until the words appear on the
page. At that time, the story takes off as if writing itself. There is no
struggle, worry over grammar, POV, or split infinitives, just the vision of the
narrative. The words of our story are at our command, just waiting to be
shared. It breathes, and each character comes to life as if we are watching a
movie.
That’s
magic!
We
write and move along at a good pace. The words seemingly fly from our fingers
to the computer screen, drafting a narrative of wonder, and then—it suddenly
stops. Why? When this magic stops or slows down, it stymies the process.
We bemoan the loss of that which is now elusive at best.
The
process of writing a story takes the writer on an immersive journey. The end
result can be gratifying not only for the author but also for the reader. So, why
do we feel at a loss for words when it counts?
Take,
for instance, the many challenges we face when communicating in everyday life.
The ability to say what we mean and mean what we say is a lost art. Life throws
us many curveballs. Is it any wonder that it can also happen when we place pen
to paper? Is it fear, doubt, rejection, judgment, or shame for even having the courage
to write that stops us?
Sadly,
there are no easy answers. The most important question is how we view our writing
from our own perspectives. What do we do when the old adage of ‘fake it until
you make it’ doesn’t help? The self-doubt can be excruciatingly painful. We ask
ourselves, who are we to write in the first place? Do we say to ourselves,
“Hold on! Wait a minute. What am I doing?”
Maybe.
What
made the difference for me was remembering the gift I had, and that was to try.
It’s a gift we all have. The gift to try is necessary if we believe in
the process, the story’s message, and ourselves. When we speak through writing,
be it fiction or non-fiction, we are the ones who write the words. Here, we can
reflect on our beliefs, experiences, or a fabrication of what or who we’d like
to be, become, or conquer. A fantasy of exploration through a medium we have
called our own.
When
stuck, try to write. Even if it’s just one word.
It
is a lonely, isolating process, to be sure—but one worth trying. This
post is for anyone who feels stuck, has lost the drive to finish, or lacks the
courage to try. This is for those of us who doubt ourselves and our
abilities. My advice is, believe in yourself—don’t give up.
Perseverance
is a heavy word, I admit. However, the gains we make when we see something
through to completion are tremendous achievements. When writing, we bare our
souls, and that takes courage.
Just
write!
~DaMarie
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